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Arranged marriage
ARRANGED MARRIAGE

Definition: A marriage in which the parents choose the husband or wife for their child.
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* All thirteen elements would be in.


1. Purposeful - even if only the parents know this !
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DO THEY REALLY KNOW WHAT'S BEST FOR CHILD ?


2. 'Legal'. That is, practice is not disallowed in the area of occurence.
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WAIT, ...


3. Both parents are in agreement, to the arrangements, of their own individual free will.
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QUESTIONS...


4. Usual activities take place - introduction, engagement, bachelorette/stag parties, wedding proper, reception, after wedding party, honeymoon, etc.
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SPONSORS ... SO WHAT ? WHAT ABOUT PARENTS' CONSCIENCE ?
Below the Line
1. Child (and probably spouse-to-be) is not in a relationship with someone else at time of the matchmaking.
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DO THESE PARENTS TRULY MEAN WELL ?


2. Child was not previously married or even engaged.
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DID THE NEW PAIR DO THEIR HIV-STATUS TEST BEFORE THE 'FIX-UP' ?


further below the line


1. Child is above the age of consent - to have sex! (and reasonably matured too!) (connect to #2 above the line).
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IS THERE AN AGE GAP ? AND DOES IT MATTER ?


2. Child does not really mind the parents choice, for whatever reason - looks, dough/money!, reputation, time/age, etc., - not that he or she urged them.
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SO CAN ANY GOOD COME OUT OF THIS ?


3. Suitor is virile (man) or fruitful (woman), even if child had no declared intention to have kid(s) for or with this man/woman.
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THERE MUST BE SOME GOOD, ABOUT SOMETHING, SOMEHOW, SOMEWHERE.


much further below the line (1)


1. No interference from the 'arrangee parents' in their child's marriage, however 'stormy' or 'blissful' it is or seems to be.
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THERE MUST BE ISSUES ...


2. Choice of parents is in full agreement with all the arrangements before the marriage (to emphasize, connect to #2 further below the line).
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THIS 'TRIAL AND ERROR' ...


3. No major disagreements or area of dissatisfaction in the 'forced' union.
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IF WORKED ON OR AT ...


much further below the line (2)


1. Marriage turns out a blessing and lasts till death do them part (connect to #1, #2 & #3 further below the line (1)).
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* CAN BE SUCCESSFUL.

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